I love my girlfriend but she seems to prefer reading over having sex with me

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DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my girlfriend to bits but she seems to prefer reading to having any fun with me.

We’ve been together for two years and at first we did lots of things together.

My girlfriend just doesn’t seem interested any more
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She was very affectionate and the sex was amazing. I loved all the kissing and the build-up to sex.

Recently she has not been so interested in me.

It was beginning to feel awkward between us so I mentioned the lack of sex and then she was passionate again – but just the once.

Now we are back where we were. She goes to bed and reads her book and then turns off the light and that is that. I simply don’t get a look in.

She says the reading helps her relax.

I don’t mind the fact that she reads, it’s just that I want the fun like we used to have.

I don’t know what to do. We are both 29.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You have to talk to her again. Explain that you love her and you miss the passion.

Ask her to put her book down a couple of nights a week so that you can enjoy being a couple again.

If she’s lost interest in sex because it has not been right for her, my e-leaflet How To Thrill A Woman In Bed can help you improve your sexual technique and rev up her interest.


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